I used to have a friend who’d say, “Dating is nothing but a numbers game.” She believed that going on more dates was equivalent to a higher likelihood of falling in love. However well-intentioned it may be, it flies in the face of a major factor essential to an introvert’s well-being—alone time. So yes, you will have times when sitting across from another human being, you’ll feel you’d rather pull out your molars without Novocaine than think of another word to say to this person. I feared if I declined, I would be passing up on a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. You will have days when unexpected issues arise at work, your cat gets sick, a family member calls with an emergency, or a friend emails with the last-minute favor to which you have to say yes because they helped you out last week.
And we all know that women are attracted to successful men. As an introverted guy, you probably have challenges when talking to girls.I like to drop little hints throughout my online profile about how much I value my quiet time; this roots out any suitors prowling for a party girl.I mention that I tend to spend many hours reading and that I like book recommendations.Besides being able to provide you with a lot of free advice, the fact that I don’t enjoy being surrounded by hordes of people who kill me with their ridiculous small talk helped me to attracted amazing women.I know that it sound counterintuitive, but I personally regard my introversion when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women.