Sex has been linked to immune system boosts, happier moods, decreased depression, and lower levels of stress, as well as pain relief (thanks to the release of endorphins and oxytocin).
Couples who maintain a sexual relationship also benefit from increased intimacy.
Sex becomes unhealthy when there is high anxiety and heightened avoidance, embarrassment, and frustration.
Guilt and blame also interfere with sexual satisfaction in relationships.
Research also finds that 50-55% of married couples experience sexual problems.
Sexuality is much more than the act of sex — it is an emotional bonding experience for couples and leads to a multitude of psychological, mental, physical, and marital benefits.
Can anyone tell me what are the attitudes towards white guys having sex/relationships with local girls in Sri Lanka? Short story: it is almost impossible to hook up with a SL girl, but since you are staying there long term you may have a better chance.
Is it usually forbidden and therefore you're unlikely to get attention from the locals (not talking bars and clubs but just day to day life) and even if you do, are you likely to find your head and your body in two separate locations later that day? It is not totally uncommon for Europeans, for instance, to end up with Sri Lankan wives.
A Sri Lankan friend of mine recently told me that Sri Lankan girls love white guys and they get a lot of attention in Colombo, with most of the girls you'll meet be freely allowed to date white guys... In India, Indian guys treated me very well, wanting to take pictures with me, offering to have tea with them, they offered rides, asking for my cell number, etc. I continue to here polar opposite views on the issue, it seems that Sri Lankan guys here tell me that the women love white guys and will be all over them, whereas Sri Lankan girls here tell me that you can basically rule it out and if you try to chat up a girl she will either ignore you or, at worst, interpret it as harassment and tell the police. I am not going to be trying to pick up girls for one night stands, I'm not a pick up artist and not trying to be, but I wouldn't say no to a summer romance.
Well, I'm in Sri Lanka now, have been here just a couple days but already I can say that the women here are beautiful - dark skin, long singly black hair, petite bodies.